Attracting Others To YOU

Attracting Others to YOU... hemm... what can i say... attracting people... basically we will attract people like we do... so, the main question is not how... but why.. and it doesn't matter what is your answer is because it will come to one point that is LIVING A LIFE WITH PESSION!!

How to attract people better than us? how to attract people that we want to become or we wish to have for a life time... How to will come when you start knowing the whys....

Well... here are some suggestions that might help you to develop some skill internally and externally... What i would love to touch today is this 2 section where we can improve ourselves...

1. External Factor of Us

a) Basically it is all about our fizical appearances. right folks? Eventhougt they say dont judge a book by its cover... but everyone have their own first impression of someone they just met.. Why dont we just improve ourselves in these areas and we'll get such a warm welcome...

i. Well Groomed
ii. Modestly Dressed (clean and neat)
iii. Personal Higuene
iv. Good Body Posture ~ air of confidance
v. Big and Wonderful Smiles
vi. Good Eye Contact
vii. Sincere Firm Handshake
viii. Positive Body Language
ix. Apprpriate Fizical Touch ~elbow or sholder
x. Displaying Energy & Assets for Life ~ undercontrol

b) Personal & Relationship Skills
i. Positive Attitude ~ feel good and out lifting
ii. We are Other People Focus ~ We are not just focusing in ME; its all about WE
iii. Display Sincere People Skill ~ the motive is pure (e.g. the use of knowladge)
iv. Always Addressed People by Their Names ~ Feel like a V.I.P.
v. Remember Things About Them ~ No of children, events they go & etc; show the interest and care

c) Good at Asking Questions
i. Get to know where they at
ii. Listen and don't interrupt
iii. Innitiating Conversation ~ Always a 2 way communication

d) Walk The Talk

e) Lead The Way

d) Addify them to your supperior friends (they feel important)

the second factor will be continued...

"Life is no brief of candle to me, it is a sort of splendid torch which i want to make burn as brightly as possible before handling it on to future GENERATIONS - George Burnette"